If you have been thinking about patching up with your ex, the decision can be right, or wrong depending on how you both handle the situation, or whether you are both being sensible about it or not. There is nothing wrong with it, and I have personally seen some great patch-ups even when the relationship ended up on bad terms in the first place.

With that said and done, if you think you have grown stronger after a break up and you want to get back with your ex, there are a few things that you must consider before you do that. This will help you have a clearer, and a better understanding as well. So, do consider these things.

Do I Really Want That?

Sure, you have just met them after ages, you are both still single, and the spark still feels like it’s there. However, make sure that the spark is actually there, and it is not just a rush of seeing them after a long time. Think rationally, and ask yourself if you really want that. If you still cannot stop thinking about them after a few days, you do know what to do.

Should I Consult Someone

Another thing that you should consider is whether you should consult someone or not. This is important as well because in many cases, your friends know you better than most people in your life, or yourself for that matter. So, asking for their opinion can be a lot more helpful than you might believe. If you want to have a second opinion.

Once the situation clears out, you are free to make the decision, because the decision, in that case, will be a much better one.